“Respect isn’t
given. It’s earned.”
I completely agree with this statement with the caveat that
we’re talking about individuals and their personal merits as they interact
directly with me.
And the crowd goes respectful |
If we’re talking about race or religion or socio-economic
status, gender, or sexual orientation then no one should need to
"earn" respect. Respect should
be a given based on their race, religion, or sexual preference, socio-economic
status etc. out of the gate. Just as you or I shouldn’t haven’t to defend
color, creed, gender, etc. others, other human beings, should be entitled to your respect as, you
know, a decent, fellow being travelling on the same planet. Until they, individually, prove otherwise and
then, as FitzWilliam Darcy put it, “My good opinion, once lost is lost forever.” For that individual alone. We ought not commit
the fallacy of generalization based on one person's or one small group's actions.
I see no reason to mock someone before they've
"earned" my respect because they're different. What would that serve? A quick guffaw at the expense of someone else's self-esteem? I like to think most
people generally don't want to be challenged to prove their worth just because
they're strangers who look different or believe different things. Racism exists
because one group holds another to arbitrary standards based on
generalizations. Racism has everything to do with not respecting the
individual and extending that out to the group as a whole.
Or, as Neil Gaiman put it:
Respect the hair! |
I
was reading a book (about interjections, oddly enough) yesterday which included
the phrase “In these days of political correctness…” talking about no longer
making jokes that denigrated people for their culture or for the colour of
their skin. And I thought, “That’s not actually anything to do with ‘political
correctness’. That’s just treating other people with respect.”
Which
made me oddly happy. I started imagining a world in which we replaced the
phrase “politically correct” wherever we could with “treating other people with
respect”, and it made me smile.
You
should try it. It’s peculiarly enlightening.
I
know what you’re thinking now. You’re thinking “Oh my god, that’s treating
other people with respect gone mad!”
Welcome to the human race.
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