Neener, neener, neener! |
Seriously.
Every
few years it seems another blogger or journalist makes the stunning observation
that “kids these days are coddled”. It's
barely observable behavior, with no scientific or research basis, codified more from distorted memory of the “good ole days” than anything else.
Let's
look at my favorite “observed” pet peeve from this article by the insightful Whitney Collins who claims: We Can Warm a Bench. This is the suggestion that today’s kids are
coddled and soft because of how parents and organizations treat their
participation. Gen Xers who believe they
didn't receive participation awards should talk to their parents. You may not
remember them because, well, they're unmemorable. And that’s the point. But we got them. Also ask your parents about
their own participation awards.
They
aren't new.
They
also don't turn you into a blubbering, whiny, cry-baby. You were already a whiny, cry-baby because
that’s the only argument you had until your brain rewired itself during your
teen years and you grasped logic, reason and negotiation over the more basic
instincts. I have a participation award
that I actually treasure among the trophies I've won: my Tough Mudder orange
headband. You can't buy these, and Mudders who’ve won them don't typically sell
them. But it's a flat out participation
award. You had to run a 13+ mile obstacle course around, over, and across several mountains while sometimes being hit with electricity.
Hey wait, I'm 40. Where's my basement and free rent? |
In
short, it's horse manure.
It’s
about pawning off lazy and biased writing as substantive. It’s about making unsupported claims and
stating them as fact. These articles
paints a very rosy and completely false picture of one generation at the
expense of another through equally false observations. Each point makes broad, sweeping claims that
suffer and die from the fallacy of generalization. Gen Xers, like every other
generation, had vastly different experiences based more on socio-economic and
geographic factors than they did being born at roughly the same time. At best we could all nod and sing along to “The
Smurfs” theme song, or provide forced laughter when someone yells, “Where’s the
beef!”
Catch-phrases
and trivial pop culture references do not make us a superior generation.
Quit yer whining! Don't you have a participation trophy to polish? |
There
is no such thing as a “sweet spot” for children to grow up in, and ours is no
different. The complaints these articles
level about Millennials being self-entitled and coddled are the same
observations made by every generation all the way back to Neanderthals
complaining that Homo Erectus had it so easy because they could make fire.
"Back
in my generation the cave was COLD and that made you TOUGH. This FIRE
technology, so called, is the downfall of SOCIETY!"
Horse
manure.
I
have had the distinct honor and privilege of working with high school students
for the past six years. While certainly
some can fall into any given stereotype, others are the pinnacle of their
generation. With access to the internet
and ebooks, Skype and 24-7 news, they are some of the best informed, best read
and most rationale individuals I’ve had the pleasure of meeting. They see an ever-shrinking world, in which
the politics of one nation can have vast, sweeping and extremely detrimental effects
on others. They’ve lived through 9/11, the
War on Terror, and the Great Recession.
By comparison to other generations, theirs has had the least stability,
the most insecurity, and felt the greatest burden of risk.
I know you are, but what are we? |
This
kind of pandering is one generation being self-congratulatory, while demeaning
another. Complaining about the current generation's failings isn't bold or
praiseworthy. It's cliché, as the New York Times kindly pointed out all the way
back in 2011 about our own generation (and all the others):
Growing
up in the ’70s and ’80s, the twentysomethings were indulged with every toy,
game and electronic device available. They didn’t even have to learn how to
amuse themselves since Mom and Dad were always there to ferry them from one
organized activity to another. If we baby boomers were spoiled, the Whiny
Generation was left out to rot. They had it all.
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